Advice: Origin/Meaning Behind Giving The Cold Shoulder & Carry Water For Someone

Not All Girls Play With Dolls by Leslie M. Jasper




View all my reviews Photo Credit: Goodreads.com Review Hello Everyone! Sadly, I'm reporting that we are right back to a Monday afternoon. It sure is super humid and swampy on my side of the globe today. I'm trying to hide out in my air-conditioned field as much as possible today. How's life going for you on your side of the globe today, my friend? Hopefully, you are having an amazing day that's filled with major accomplishments and some laughs along the way today. Before I share my input, allow me to share my first children's book that's entitled, "Not All Girls Play With Dolls" that is available in e-book, paperback, and hardcover on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and iTunes. Additionally, I'm also sharing my first adult e-book entitled, "Construction Tales: Volume I: A Woman's Journey To Become An Electrician". Now, let's get into today's double advice blog post, courtesy of Quora, so that you may review today's topics of choice. This first piece of advice is on the meaning behind the phrase, “give someone the cold shoulder”. I totally get "ice queen" vibes off of this phrase. The world can be a cold, cruel place. A cold shoulder, from a beloved person, can make it an even icier and miserable existence. Oftentimes, there is a valid reason as to why a person gives another person a cold shoulder. I'm not convinced that a cold shoulder is unprovoked. I sure as hell know that if I'm giving the cold shoulder, someone made me absolutely miserable. My second delivery of advice is on the meaning behind the phrase, "carry water for someone". It's not a phrase that I've heard often. I'm offering my interpretation based upon my use of common sense. As with the other blog posts, I do my best to try to think about the few ways to view the coin. However, there are times when I'm drawing a blank or just offering the bare minimum of what I can think about. I shall let you decide if I went in the weeds enough or not. As always, I'm open to hearing another way of viewing the coin. It's now time to relax in the Quora discussion lounge by reading what I have selected for you down below: POSED QUESTION #1: "Where does the phrase “give someone the cold shoulder” come from?" -By Jenter Ton MY RESPONSE #1: "When I think of this phrase, my interpretation is that another soul has turned their back on you and have totally walked away. This person has totally abandoned the other in the iciest way possible. Let’s refer to the internet in order to see where the earliest recording of this phrase popped up. Well, why not use Wikipedia to do my heavy lifting? The first recorded use of the expression was in 1816 by Sir Walter Scott in the Scots language, in The Antiquary. This expression is a mistranslation of the Latin phrase, “dederunt umerum recedentem” from the Book of Nehemiah 9.29 from the Vulgate Bible, which actually means "stubbornly they turned their backs on you". This phrase is derived from the Septuagint Bible's Greek equivalent, “ἔδωκαν νῶτον ἀπειθοῦντα”. Latin, “umerus” (often misspelled humerus) means both "shoulder" and "back". This phrase demonstrates such cold behavior that I wish on no one. May you experience nothing but warmth, love, and loyalty along your life path. #ConstructionTales #VerballyDisastrous #NotAllGirlsPlayWithDolls" -By Leslie M. Jasper https://www.quora.com/Where-does-the-phrase-give-someone-the-cold-shoulder-come-from/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3 POSED QUESTION #2: "What does it mean to "carry water" for someone?" -By Earl Kliethermes MY RESPONSE #2: "My interpretation of a person carrying water for another person would be that they are picking up the other person’s slack. This can be in the form of assisting with the easiest of tasks or tackling ones that require a tremendous amount of time and energy. The objective to carry water for another person would be to make their life easier. Perhaps carrying water is a way of showing love and affection for the other person; known as their love language. I’m not used to anyone carrying water for me. The only thing I’m used to is taking care of everything myself. A person may chip in on occasion and carry water for me. I would totally appreciate it the day it happens. May you have someone who has joy in their heart while carrying water for you. I wish you much luck and success!! #ConstructionTales #VerballyDisastrous #NotAllGirlsPlayWithDolls" -By Leslie M. Jasper https://www.quora.com/What-does-it-mean-to-carry-water-for-someone/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1 I thank you for willfully loitering within my duel advice blog posts today. Share those thoughts on the chosen topics by dropping your two cents down in the comment section below. If you are into podcasts, I encourage you to review my last (8) podcast episodes that are listed down below from The Verbally Disastrous Podcast, via links for Spotify & YouTube down below. If you are into reading on a Kindle, check out my newest short story release that belongs to my Construction Tales-Told By A Woman Kindle Vella Library short story series on Amazon down below. My last short story #11 is entitled, "Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools". This short story covers my life as a widowed, single mother in the era when I juggled both motherhood and my career as a journeywoman electrician. The previous short story is #10 is entitled, "Early Life Lessons & Characters To Meet As An Apprentice". If anyone has read any of my other previous short stories, let me know your thoughts? While we are at it, go ahead and check out the many links for my book #ConstructionTales down below. Sadly, that's all I have for you for now. Head back into your Monday routine. I vow to re-connect with you all again soon. Have yourself a great morning/afternoon/evening on your side of the globe and a restful or productive day! Link To Construction Tales: Volume I: A Woman's Journey To Become An Electrician (Paperback & Kindle) On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Construction-Tales-Womans-Journey-Electrician/dp/1467960160 Link To Construction Tales: A Young Person's Guide To Accomplish Anything In Life (Paperback & Kindle) On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Construction-Tales-Persons-Accomplish-Anything/dp/1497593115 U.S.A.: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B07P5PNCS7/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_us United Kingdom: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B07P5PP7RW/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H6-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_uk France, Belgium, Switzerland: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.fr/pd/B07P7RYP4G/?source_code=FRAORWS022318903B-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_fr Germany, Austria, Switzerland: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.de/pd/B07P8W3MVY/?source_code=EKAORWS0223189009-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_de VERBALLY DISASTROUS PODCAST EPISODE LINKS: Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2dFYgX4dUiHaMfJ4gigLY0?si=KcR-D8RyRnKGk1wuPOqa1Q&dl_branch=1 Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #43: Part A- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6XzVL9ybKHA Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #44: Part B- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/TFDLB5talUo Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #45: Part C- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nYRVJNya0lU Verbally Disastrous! Season #2, Episode #46:Early Life Lessons & Characters To Meet As An Apprentice On YouTube: https://youtu.be/IcQ4-uGankA Verbally Disastrous Podcast! S#2, Ep. #47: Part A- Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qWhf4lGmcXo Verbally Disastrous Podcast! S#2, Ep. #48: Part B- Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools on YouTube: https://youtu.be/wO8nXSRw7sU Verbally Disastrous Podcast- S#2, Episode #49: Just Released Not All Girls Play With Dolls!! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/go1FdOI5eYY Verbally Disastrous Podcast- S#2, Episode #50: My First 7 Weeks As A Site Safety Manager on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_DKA-q72dNw I recently shared my latest short story that has been loaded up to my Construction Tales-Told By A Woman Kindle Vella Library on Amazon. This is short story #11 entitled, "Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools". This short story covers my life as a widowed, single mother in the era when I juggled both motherhood and my career as a journeywoman electrician. I share the various challenges I faced and lessons learned along the way. The previous short story is entitled: #10: "Early Life Lessons & Characters To Meet As An Apprentice". I decided to write about some life lessons such as guarding your personal information, managing nasty rumors, combating sexual harassment, gender discrimination, and racism. Overall, the construction culture has improved dramatically over the past 25-years. Developing both a thick skin and a sharp tongue are key tools needed to survive various jobsite antics. I hope you learn something from this short story. There are more to come. These short stories are now also available as Verbally Disastrous podcast episodes. Construction Tales- Told By A Woman: (11) Kindle Vella Short Stories On Amazon!! https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM The Verbally Disastrous Store On Tee-Spring:

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