Tuesday, August 31, 2021
My Latest Camping Experience Upstate In Franklin, New York
Hello Everyone!
How the hell are you holding up on your side of the globe today? Are we having a good or bad week this week? If you are having a good week, just take a shot of the whiskey of your choice. If you are having a bad week, take two shots of whiskey. I hope you are experiencing as much peace and calm as possible in your world. As I stated a few times on my previous posts, I apologize for going off the grid for the past week and not blogging. I did head to the main lodge and loaded up one blog post saying what I was up to for the week and some YouTube videos. I had fun spending quality time with my family in a secluded Kamp Cabin. We were lucky to have a corner unit next to a stream. The nearest camp site was unoccupied so it felt very private. We were able to play music and run movies late at night with no one complaining. This campsite belongs to a KOA Campground franchise. This KOA Campground is located in Franklin, NY that is not far from the college town Oneonta. The spot is roughly 3-hours northwest of New York City. As I mentioned in my two previous posts, I was born and raised along the southern Oregon coast. Camping is very much a huge past time back when I was growing up. I can't really think of many people as a kid who didn't go camping at some point. I have even went, along with my dad, remote camping where you didn't shower or even have an outhouse. I had spent a week in the woods hunting with my dad for deer. I have camped many times in a tent with just a sleeping bag. Sadly, my back today could not handle sleeping in a tent while just in a sleeping bag on the ground. It would be too much of a painful experience for me. I have to carry a 3-inch foam topper and put it on the Kamp Cabin bed since it was too hard. Based upon my childhood, I am very much drawn and super comfortable in the woods. I am not a tv person so I didn't feel withdrawals from not watching tv for the week. Because of being in the woods upstate, I didn't have good cell service and great Wi-Fi at my cabin. There was Wi-Fi closer to the central lodge which was helpful from being totally disconnected from the outside world. Thankfully, I opted to chill out each day and soak in nature instead of being online. I struggled with trying to read a book. I really tried to read a book over the past week. I believe that the heat and humidity made it a struggle for me to feel calm enough to sit and read. I brought two books with me and didn't do much reading at all. I brought my laptop just in case I wanted to do any writing. The mosquitos biting my ankles, despite being sprayed, served as a distraction as well. Look at me; I'm bitching about the downside of camping. Time to shut that up and move on. Then again, most people I know in New York would not use an umbrella to continue watching movies in the rain.
Thankfully, my sons have also learned how to be decently comfy in the woods. They struggled with the heat and humidity since we didn't have an air conditioner for the week and went home a day early. Since I paid for it, I stuck it out solo on Saturday until checking out on Sunday morning. I am good with sipping some booze and camping alone. Since I didn't have my dog Daisy with me, I opted to check out and hit Howe Caverns that was an hour northeast of the campsite. Howe Caverns was discovered and was named after farmer Lester Howe, who discovered the cave on May 22, 1842. He first noticed some cows standing next to a cave opening in the heat instead of going under a tree for shade. The cave remains a constant temperature of 52 degrees Fahrenheit, irrespective of the outside weather. By 1843, the cave was opened up for 8-hour tours. It appeared that Lester Howe ran into some financial difficulties despite the tours and building a hotel over the cave. A group got together to re-open the caves by Memorial Weekend back in May of 1929. It appears that the same building, from back in 1929, is still in tact and in decent shape. For the current tour, I walked along a paved and railed path to check out the different natural formations until we approached Lake Venus. Our group loaded into two boats and floated to a point where you can hear a roaring waterfall beyond. I was honestly amazed to see the amount of senior citizens that were willing to trek the caves. You are not allowed to bring a purse of any kind down there, phones and cameras are allowed, no bubble gum (I broke that rule), and you will need a sweater. Once you complete the boat ride, you go up a set of steps and check out this little chapel area where there are weddings held. There is a calcite formation that is shaped in the form of a heart and is glued to the deck. There is a superstition that you will be married within the year if you touch the heart. My silly ass went ahead and recorded myself touching it. When I load my videos to the Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel, that video of me fooling around will be in the collection. The last part of the walk is this very narrow winding path. If you are claustrophobic, you may not like the tight quarters of the last leg of the trek. Once you complete the trail, we pile into the elevator and head back upstairs. You have the option to purchase items in the gift shop, pick up some Howe Caverns cheese, fudge, candy, or a bite to eat in the cafe. It was an educational experience that I am glad that I checked out. It's pretty damn cool to see the lantern burns on the rocks from tourists from 100-years ago.
How did you spend your month of August? How about the rest of the summer? Did you find family time to spend with your group? You need to plan now since kids grow up and move out of the house very quickly. Have you ever visited any of the locations that I checked out this summer? Let me know in the comment section below. Is your family into camping? If not, are you interested in trying it for the very first time? Camping is the best opportunity to spend quality time with friends and family in an non-distracted way. What's so bad about spending time around a camp fire while drinking soda or beer with your group? It's an excellent experience to have with your clan. A fire, your dog, and the camp's noise will keep wild animals away. They fear us way more than we fear them. This is the time to play board games and other activities as a family. My sons got me a huge collapsible screen, a projector, a Wi-Fi adapted DVD player, and a mini waffle maker for my birthday. I highly value the opportunity to have future family nights all together watching movies. Thankfully, there was a swimming pool on the campground complex that we took advantage of regularly on hot days. In my previous blog posts, I have so far shared quite a few videos on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel. I plan to get back to even more blogging and working on the newest podcast episode very soon. I am going to Seaside Heights, NJ with friends for Labor Day weekend. I have a good friend with an efficiency unit on the south end of the Seaside boardwalk. My normal routine will resume after this upcoming weekend. I have a deep sea fishing trip also scheduled for next week as well. I'm quite sure I will share videos from that upcoming fishing trip as well. I thank you for stopping by my blog to read my content and check out the long line-up of YouTube videos. You are highly appreciated and I wish you a great Tuesday evening/morning/afternoon on your side of the globe. I thank you for stopping by! Now, I am sharing my latest podcast episode. It was released and shared on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel and the podcast platform of your choice. I have released Episode #32 below on many platforms:
Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/2dFYgX4dUiHaMfJ4gigLY0?si=KcR-D8RyRnKGk1wuPOqa1Q&dl_branch=1
Episode #32: Work Adventures With One Un-Lucky Guy!! on The Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel:
https://youtu.be/qXetWjlHz2M
CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (7) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!
A few weeks ago, I released another short story on working with one of the worst apprentices, who earned the nickname Lucky, in the history of my career. The unique thing about this guy was that EVERYONE I worked with also had huge challenges working with the guy. As an apprentice, it is our obligation to teach them as journeyman/woman. In turn, it is their obligation to absorb what we teach and move accordingly. I even took the time to break down the task into a step-by-step method. He would then go do what he wanted and it was an absolute disaster. Out of anyone in the shop, I had the most patience with him. This is a guy that would never ever be able to become a contractor and work on his own. He was missing many key characteristics that it takes in order to work on a project from cradle to grave solo. I now have shared (7) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM
Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper
-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.
-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.
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Just Released KOA Day Camp Videos On YouTube!
Hello Everyone!
What are you doing on your side of the globe today? Are you being productive or procrastinating? Hopefully, you are successfully dodging hurricanes and any other forms of natural disasters and crisis. I apologize for going off the grid for the past week and not blogging. I opted to spend time with my family in the woods 3-hours north of New York City. As a kid that was born and raised in Oregon, I am drawn and very comfortable in the woods. Because of being in the woods, I didn't have Wi-Fi at my cabin. I opted to chill out each day and soak in nature instead of being online. I struggle with trying to read. I brought two books with me and didn't do much reading. My sons have also learned how to be comfy in the woods. How did you spend the month of August? Did you find family time? Did you opt to grind it out and work? Let me know in the comment section below. I am sharing the videos that I released on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel. Here are some more videos that I shared from my camping trip below:
Verbally Disastrous Presents- KOA Day Camp Videos: Clip #1 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/YjpbE5dPkiM
Verbally Disastrous Presents- KOA Day Camp Videos: Clip #2 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/OG94_OekmCU
Verbally Disastrous Presents- KOA Day Camp Videos: Clip #3 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/PDG7VnN7o8I
Verbally Disastrous Presents- KOA Day Camp Videos: Clip #4 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/oRm9ei_I8zQ
Verbally Disastrous Presents- My Two Son's Dip In Pool Post Boxing Match on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/7jPjhuXbrIY
Verbally Disastrous Presents- My First Dip In The Camp Pool!! on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/B8WPjwJGkaE
Do you go camping with your family? If not, are you interested in trying it for the very first time? Camping is a great opportunity to spend quality time with friends and family around a fire. If you want to drink beer with your group, it makes the experience even better. Don't worry, a fire, your dog, and noise will keep wild animals away. We all got together and played the game 'Life' and did many rounds of beer pong. For my birthday, I got a screen, a projector, a Wi-Fi adapted DVD player, and a mini waffle maker from my sons. I value to the opportunity to have future family nights all together in the future. There was a swimming pool on the campgrounds that we took advantage of on hot days. I have quite a few videos to share with you all. I plan to get back to blogging and working on the newest podcast episode very soon. I am going to Seaside Heights, NJ with friends for Labor Day weekend. I have a good friend with an efficiency unit on the south end of the Seaside boardwalk. My normal routine will resume after this weekend. I thank you for stopping by my blog and reading my content and checking out the videos. You are highly appreciated and I wish you a great Tuesday evening/morning/afternoon on your side of the globe. I am also going to share my latest podcast episodes. A few weeks ago, I released and shared my latest four podcast episodes that I have up on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel and the podcast platform of your choice. I have released the following:
Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/2dFYgX4dUiHaMfJ4gigLY0?si=KcR-D8RyRnKGk1wuPOqa1Q&dl_branch=1
Episode #29: Part A-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Q1qZS9h_qMQ
Episode #30: Part B-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/zDCCKj1iUYk
Episode #31: Mrs. Canatuna Piggly Dogg Meat Complaint!! on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bicjZ3EHcOg
Episode #32: Work Adventures With One Un-Lucky Guy!! on The Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel:
https://youtu.be/qXetWjlHz2M
CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (7) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!
A few weeks ago, I released another short story on working with one of the worst apprentices, who earned the nickname Lucky, in the history of my career. The unique thing about this guy was that EVERYONE I worked with also had huge challenges working with the guy. As an apprentice, it is our obligation to teach them as journeyman/woman. In turn, it is their obligation to absorb what we teach and move accordingly. I even took the time to break down the task into a step-by-step method. He would then go do what he wanted and it was an absolute disaster. Out of anyone in the shop, I had the most patience with him. This is a guy that would never ever be able to become a contractor and work on his own. He was missing many key characteristics that it takes in order to work on a project from cradle to grave solo. I now have shared (7) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM
Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper
-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.
-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.
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Just Released 'Camping Fun At Night' On YouTube!
Hello Everyone!
How are you doing on your side of the globe? Hopefully, you are successfully dodging hurricanes and any other forms of natural disasters and crisis. I apologize for going off the grid for the past week and not blogging. I opted to spend time with my family in the woods 3-hours north of New York City. As a kid that was born and raised in Oregon, I am drawn and very comfortable in the woods. Because of being in the woods, I didn't have Wi-Fi at my cabin. I opted to chill out each day and soak in nature instead of being online. I struggle with trying to read. I brought two books with me and didn't do much reading. My sons have also learned how to be comfy in the woods. How did you spend the month of August? Did you find family time? Did you opt to grind it out and work? Let me know in the comment section below. I am sharing the videos that I released on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel. Here are some videos that I shared from my camping trip below:
Verbally Disastrous Presents- Camping Fun At Night: Clip #1 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/SkUKecwkmZU
Verbally Disastrous Presents- Camping Fun At Night: Clip #2 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/R4rNbUUlrBA
Verbally Disastrous Presents- Camping Fun At Night: Clip #3 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/7h_yNBkTzcI
Verbally Disastrous Presents- Camping Fun At Night: Clip #4 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/3T58VLH8rjE
Verbally Disastrous Presents- Camping Fun At Night: Clip #5 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/JnpmPFGJ6Uo
Verbally Disastrous Presents- Camping Fun At Night: Clip #6 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/6Y8p7dkinis
Verbally Disastrous Presents- Camping Fun At Night: Clip #7 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/6XRNBye0XN8
Verbally Disastrous Presents- Camping Fun At Night: Clip #8 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/qC9o3hzOB8I
Are you also a camper? Are you interested in going camping for the very first time? It is a great opportunity to spend quality time with friends and family around a fire. We all got together and played the game Life and did many rounds of beer pong. For my birthday, I got a screen, a projector, a Wi-Fi adapted DVD player, and a mini waffle maker from my sons. I value to the opportunity to have future family nights all together in the future. There was a swimming pool on the campgrounds that we took advantage of on hot days. I have quite a few videos to share with you all. I plan to get back to blogging and working on the newest podcast episode very soon. I am going to Seaside Heights, NJ with friends for Labor Day weekend. I have a good friend with an efficiency unit on the south end of the Seaside boardwalk. My normal routine will resume after this weekend. I thank you for stopping by my blog and reading my content and checking out the videos. You are highly appreciated and I wish you a great Tuesday evening/morning/afternoon on your side of the globe. I am also going to share my latest podcast episodes. A few weeks ago, I released and shared my latest four podcast episodes that I have up on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel and the podcast platform of your choice. I have released the following:
Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/2dFYgX4dUiHaMfJ4gigLY0?si=KcR-D8RyRnKGk1wuPOqa1Q&dl_branch=1
Episode #29: Part A-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Q1qZS9h_qMQ
Episode #30: Part B-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/zDCCKj1iUYk
Episode #31: Mrs. Canatuna Piggly Dogg Meat Complaint!! on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bicjZ3EHcOg
Episode #32: Work Adventures With One Un-Lucky Guy!! on The Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel:
https://youtu.be/qXetWjlHz2M
CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (7) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!
A few weeks ago, I released another short story on working with one of the worst apprentices, who earned the nickname 'Lucky', in the history of my career. The unique thing about this guy was that EVERYONE I worked with also had huge challenges working with the guy. As an apprentice, it is our obligation to teach them as journeyman/woman. In turn, it is their obligation to absorb what we teach and move accordingly. I even took the time to break down the task into a step-by-step method. He would then go do what he wanted and it was an absolute disaster. Out of anyone in the shop, I had the most patience with him. This is a guy that would never ever be able to become a contractor and work on his own. He was missing many key characteristics that it takes in order to work on a project from cradle to grave solo. I now have shared (7) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM
Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper
-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.
-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.
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Monday, August 23, 2021
Camping Upstate In A Kamping Cabin!!
Hello Everyone!
I have spent the weekend preparing to go upstate camping with my sons. I chose to camp at a KOA Campground. I chose the Unadilla/I-88/Oneonta KOA Journey up in Franklin, New York. The place is near Oneonta and about 3 hours north west of New York City. As of now, I have only stayed one night. My tours of the Kamp Cabin are on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel. I shall offer updates as I make memories with friends and family. This trip is in honor of my birthday week! Here are the two videos:
Verbally Disastrous Presents- KOA Kamping Cabin Tour Clip #1 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/DFJDzASI0cU
Verbally Disastrous Presents- KOA Kamping Cabin Tour Clip #2 on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Z6QXhx44smQ
I thank you for stopping by to check out my new camping adventure. Let me know what adventure you went on this summer? Wherever you are in the world, I thank you for stopping by. I wish you a good start of the week with your Monday. Take care and speak with you soon!
I recently released and shared my latest four podcast episodes that I have up on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel and the podcast platform of your choice. I have released the following:
Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/2dFYgX4dUiHaMfJ4gigLY0?si=KcR-D8RyRnKGk1wuPOqa1Q&dl_branch=1
Episode #29: Part A-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Q1qZS9h_qMQ
Episode #30: Part B-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/zDCCKj1iUYk
Episode #31: Mrs. Canatuna Piggly Dogg Meat Complaint!! on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bicjZ3EHcOg
Episode #32: Work Adventures With One Un-Lucky Guy!! on The Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel:
https://youtu.be/qXetWjlHz2M
CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (7) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!
I just released another short story last week on working with one of the worst apprentices, who earned the nickname Lucky, in the history of my career. The unique thing about this guy was that EVERYONE I worked with also had huge challenges working with the guy. As an apprentice, it is our obligation to teach them as journeyman/woman. In turn, it is their obligation to absorb what we teach and move accordingly. I even took the time to break down the task into a step-by-step method. He would then go do what he wanted and it was an absolute disaster. Out of anyone in the shop, I had the most patience with him. This is a guy that would never ever be able to become a contractor and work on his own. He was missing many key characteristics that it takes in order to work on a project from cradle to grave solo. I now have shared (7) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM
Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper
-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.
-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.
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Thursday, August 19, 2021
The Best Strategy To Wipe A Smirk Off A Person's Face??
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Hello Everyone!
Are you enjoying our evening or morning when you wake up to read this? If it is morning, then GOOD MORNING!! (read sentence in a high pitch voice) By the way, thanks for stopping by! I couldn't resist checking out the pile of questions on Quora that are intended for me to respond. I think I found a decent one to share with you. As soon as I saw this Quora question on finding the most satisfying way to wipe a smirk off another person's face, I envisioned an octagon and some MMA fighters. I couldn't help myself with laughing while thinking about that vision. It reminded me of a time when I had a tug-o-war with another trade who tried yanking a squeegee out of my hand. That idiot underestimated my strength and learned it real quick upon challenging me amongst our peers. I'm sure he got his balls broken on that job for the rest of the project. I checked his ass in front of about 20 people after he tried lying to management. Once that conflict was over, each and every time I passed them, all I did was put on the cheesy smirk that grinned from ear to ear the entire time as I walked past. It was WAY more effective than walking by with anger. For many, watching others angry makes them happy. A happy person tends to piss the same group off since it gets under their skin. My general foreman was tickled by the tug-o-war interaction and gave me the nickname, "Fabulous Moohlah" after a legendary female wrestler. Even though I shared a rare moment during my career, I absolutely hate resorting to violence. I would only entertain it if I had to do it and felt like my back was up against the wall. I am willing to shake the dust off my wrestling uniform when I have to do it. In all seriousness, I do not immediately want to resort to any type of drama or violence.
I have always believed in the power of the mantra that is- "success is the best revenge". If you are happy and smashing your goals to achieve success, you are not wasting energy on negative emotions or actions. Yes, people do notice the failures of others. However, they notice a person's success even more. A person's success can force the haters to eat some humble pie. Miserable people want their misery to seep onto other people since they love company. Successful people work to encourage other successful people to join them. When you are high on the clouds and happy as hell, you are not focusing on what other people have and you don't have. You want to work to continue your success. Chances are, you are already investigating the exact steps that are needed to achieve your goal and even actively working on achieving that goal. When on the happy high, you don't even desire to wipe any smirks off of anyone else's face. That happy soul has a high vibration that is a way different vibe than a person who is sulking about wiping a smirk off another person's face with their low vibrations. Trying to come at someone else with drama in an effort to wipe off the smirk on their face is such a waste of energy and shifts the focus away from your own successful path. It is way better to continue walking past people absolutely intoxicated with your own happiness and success. A smirk is wiped off a miserable person who is watching you walk by happy. Always choose to work with good energy. I am sure many people have a way different view on this question than I do and I respect that. I am aware that my response is not the only one. I'm sure the numbers are high on those folks who want some satisfaction through beating some ass in order to wipe a smirk off another person's face. As long as you have nothing to lose, do you my friend. After all, it is your risk and your satisfying reward to seize and enjoy or face the music later. :) Now, take off the boxing gloves and read the posed question and my response below.
POSED QUESTION:
"What is the most satisfying way you saw a smirk get wiped off someone's face?" -Judith Engelstad
MY RESPONSE:
"The best way to wipe a smirk off a person’s face is by chasing and smashing goals to become the most successful person that you can possible be. I have always believed in the phrase, “success is the best revenge”. I have guided teens, over the years, with that phrase. This phrase is especially valid and needed when the teen endures either an absent parent or a parent that has deemed them as worthless. The teen needs to just focus on their path to success and not waste energy on something they can’t control. Doing poorly does not compel a friend and/or family member to seek you out later or eat their words. Being successful sure as hell does. Besides, it is fruitless to waste energy on an aloof family member. The teen just needs to focus on being their best selves. Once you are in a good mental space and happy with progress, you are winning! Any person who is miserable also wants other people to be miserable. What more can you ask for if you are happy and successful? A miserable person with a smirk will not even be on your radar when you are in such a fabulous place in life. I wish you much luck on your happiness and success!"
-Leslie M. Jasper
https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-most-satisfying-way-you-saw-a-smirk-get-wiped-off-someones-face/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1
Well, let me know what you think about this topic by dropping feedback in the comment section below? Did I change your mind at all on how you would have approached it? If not, we're still cool. I am mildly curious about your opinion on the question. I try my best to systematically dissect and break down the question in a thorough and thoughtful way. I also try to look at all angles even if that is not how I think. I was not capable of thinking from another view when I was younger. I used to be naïve and think that the average person had good intentions and took an honest approach. I was very disappointed when my bubble burst on my initial position on the thought patterns and agendas of others! As an older adult who has now encountered a wide variety of different mindsets, my eyes are way more open. I can now spot people who view life with different behavior patterns and agendas. I believe that many people choose violence when wiping smirks off other people's faces. I strongly disagree with going this route since it opens yourself up for future criminal records or civil action legal problems. I will always believe that success is the best revenge. The temptation to give another person a beat down is high. I'm not gonna lie. I like my portfolio that I have acquired in my life and I'm not willing to hand it over to some undeserving fool after caving in to temptation and making a bad split second decision. Well, do you agree or disagree with me? Let me know your own personal solution on the subject matter in the comment section below? Now, I need to get myself ready for bed. Therefore, have a fabulous Thursday evening at work or home solo or with friends and/or family. Try to enjoy your upcoming weekend however you wish or need to do. Try to keep cool, dry, and safe for the last part of the work week people! Peace out, Cub Scout!
I recently released and shared my latest four podcast episodes that I have up on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel and the podcast platform of your choice. I have released the following:
Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/2dFYgX4dUiHaMfJ4gigLY0?si=KcR-D8RyRnKGk1wuPOqa1Q&dl_branch=1
Episode #29: Part A-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Q1qZS9h_qMQ
Episode #30: Part B-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/zDCCKj1iUYk
Episode #31: Mrs. Canatuna Piggly Dogg Meat Complaint!! on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bicjZ3EHcOg
Episode #32: Work Adventures With One Un-Lucky Guy!! on The Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel:
https://youtu.be/qXetWjlHz2M
CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (7) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!
I just released another short story this week on working with one of the worst apprentices, who earned the nickname Lucky, in the history of my career. The unique thing about this guy was that EVERYONE I worked with also had huge challenges working with the guy. As an apprentice, it is our obligation to teach them as journeyman/woman. In turn, it is their obligation to absorb what we teach and move accordingly. I even took the time to break down the task into a step-by-step method. He would then go do what he wanted and it was an absolute disaster. Out of anyone in the shop, I had the most patience with him. This is a guy that would never ever be able to become a contractor and work on his own. He was missing many key characteristics that it takes in order to work on a project from cradle to grave solo. I now have shared (7) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM
Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper
-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.
-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.
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How Do You Portray Yourself To Others?
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Hello Everyone!
How is your day going? How warm was it on your side of the globe today? My heart and prayers goes out to the nations who are suffering through tough times right now! This extends to the people of Afghanistan and Haiti who are submersed in turmoil at the moment. I try to be grateful each day with what God and the Universe has blessed me with good things in a chaotic world that is laced with suffering and pain. I literally just took a second to thank our higher powers for my blessings. I wish for you that your basic needs are being met on a consistent basis. Let me know in the comment section how you THINK you are portrayed out in the outside world? How far do you think others believe that you sway from your own internal moral compass? It is not something I thought about much until I was diving into this Quora question. I would imagine, no matter how consistent the words and actions are, that there is a degree of variation between intent and perception. If you believe that there is a misunderstanding, how compelled do you feel to offer clarity? Is there a threshold to your willingness to offer clarity? Do you take a "take me as I am" approach? Over the years, I liked sharing some of my goals that I smashed around the house via showing finished home improvement photos. I was excited to accomplish them and was very eager to share. Sometimes I just bubble with excitement. I will always be in awe with what my hands and mind are capable of doing. I refuse to apologize for being a go-getter. It didn't occur to me that it could be considered as me bragging about my life. Not once do I think I have a life that others envy. I'm just an everyday person in life. I try to be helpful and hope to inspire others to work on their projects. I tend to cheer others on when they share their projects and even ask questions. It is good to always evolve and learn every day. I even recently started doing installation tutorials to help guide others to do the same. I genuinely didn't think about it in that way until I received some random negative feedback. The next thought was how do you move forward? Do you allow salty observers to force you to withdraw from sharing or do you ignore it? I shall stick to my guns and be the person that I am. There is the unfollow and the block button for folks to use at their discretion. Here is a question, from Quora, on a person who received feedback from another person that they didn't like how the other person portrayed themselves. Yes, it is missing some information as to exactly what is the root issue. Nonetheless, I attempted to tackle it anyway. Do you struggle with how others perceive you? Do you struggle with how you perceive others? Are you trying to evolve and not take the criticism so hard or face it head on? Are you just ignoring it all together or are you using the feedback as a tool to implement change? It is a challenge to push past the ego and allow yourself to use the criticism strategically. I believe that no matter how you deliver your life through words and actions, someone is going to have a problem with it. You just need to determine if there is merit to the feedback or just another tall glass of verbal garbage. I feel sorry for anyone who has to walk on egg shells all of the time trying to not cause someone else to pull up a red flag or question their behavior and/or words. Then again, there are miserable folks in this world who thrive off of drama and rumors. I kept to myself as a kid while in school and was not fully aware of that circle of toxic gossip. I successfully flew under the radar and I didn't let out much about myself. Today, as a blogger, author, and podcaster, I am making up for lost time! :P I probably dodged some pain from teen gossip venom by moving mostly solo in school. My finger wasn't too far off the pulse with mostly avoiding other teens. It was an eye opener crossing paths with rumors and gossip in the military and on the job in construction. I sat at the lunch break table and heard many people, over the years, spin some savage and untrue rumors about other people. I am sad for the people who take what others say as the truth. You must always consider the source and form your own opinion based upon your own experiences. Rumors are so dangerous and not healthy to inflict on other people. I am sure that many people have a different view on this question and I respect that. I am aware that my response is one of many and I am perfectly okay with that. Here is the posed question and my response below.
POSED QUESTION:
"What does it mean when someone says they don’t like the way you portray yourself?" -Trendy Reality TV
MY RESPONSE:
"Everyone puts their best foot forward and tries to portray a story of their life. This story is portrayed whether it is verbally or visually conveyed in life via work, during social and/or personal life, or on social media platforms through your words and actions. The story portrayed may actually be YOUR TRUTH or it may be what you WANT it to be. If you are going with what you want it to be, then you need to be very consistent with your words and actions. If not, you run the risk of being called out by people who observe every detail of your life. If a person witnesses one form portrayal yet recognizes a different portrayal, they may or may not speak up about any witnessed discrepancies. Now, it is up to you, as a witness, to speak up and point out the discrepancies and ask for clarity. This need for clarity hinges on your relationship with the person offering a self portrayal. As the person being told, by a witness, that your portrayal differs from what they have known previously, you have some options. Door A is to totally ignore the feedback and just carry on with our life as if it wasn’t interrupted. Door B is to take into consideration what the witness told you and work to be more consistent in all arenas moving forward. Door C involves realizing that clarity is needed on the discrepancy witnessed of your portrayal. You make that determination to offer clarity with missing information if you are close with the witness and offering clarity will resolve any former negative opinions and give both parties some form of peace. Now, what does it mean when a witness confesses that they do not like how you portray yourself? They are trying to tell you that what you put out there as your story doesn’t line up with their initial perception of you. This witness may be throwing up a red flag since they witnessed a recent change in words and/or actions and do not understand the root for the change. You may want to ask the witness what is it exactly that they don’t like about your portrayal? What exactly can you do to change their opinion? What you do with this information, is up to you. This information may be vital since it can help you to recognize your deviations and work to steer your story in a particular way to make it more believable in the future and avoid misunderstandings or confusion. Then again, this witness may be claiming that your portrayal is not real since they were really fishing for information. When you offer clarity in order to clear up the confusion, they receive the information that they were really looking for in the first place. Beware of these nosy predators. The witness may even be the one lying about your portrayal and looking to see if you change your story or not. It is up to you to stay strong on the path of your portrayal. Remember that many different people will view the exact same story at different angles. At the end of the day, hopefully you are living in your truth and content with the outcome. If you are not content, then make the changes accordingly. I wish you much luck and success moving forward!"
-Leslie M. Jasper
https://www.quora.com/What-does-it-mean-when-someone-says-they-don-t-like-the-way-you-portray-yourself/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1
Well, let me know your thoughts about this topic by dropping feedback or just show some support? As always, I am wondering about your opinion on the question. I try my best to systematically dissect and break down a question in a thorough way. I also try to look at all angles. This was something that I was not capable of doing when I was younger. I used to think that the average person was pure with their intentions and honest with their approach. After years of dealing with sneaky, suspicious people in all avenues of my life, I have learned how to spot that behavior. There are bad things that come with wasting time on manipulating narcissists. The good thing that comes up are the lessons learned and distinct behavior patterns to find and follow then try to distance yourself. Do you like my advice? If your advice would differ, how much different would it be? I would be interested to hear a different viewpoint than mine. Now, I need to move on to other tasks in my day. Therefore, have a fabulous Thursday afternoon at work or home solo or with friends and/or family. Try to enjoy your week, what's left of it, however you wish or need to do. Try to keep cool, dry, and safe for the rest of the work week people! Peace out, Cub Scout!
I recently released and shared my latest three podcast episodes that I have up on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel and the podcast platform of your choice. I have released the following:
Episode #29: Part A-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Q1qZS9h_qMQ
Episode #30: Part B-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/zDCCKj1iUYk
Episode #31: Mrs. Canatuna Piggly Dogg Meat Complaint!! on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bicjZ3EHcOg
CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (7) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!
I just released another short story this week on working with one of the worst apprentices, who earned the nickname Lucky, in the history of my career. The unique thing about this guy was that EVERYONE I worked with also had huge challenges working with the guy. As an apprentice, it is our obligation to teach them as journeyman/woman. In turn, it is their obligation to absorb what we teach and move accordingly. I even took the time to break down the task into a step-by-step method. He would then go do what he wanted and it was an absolute disaster. Out of anyone in the shop, I had the most patience with him. This is a guy that would never ever be able to become a contractor and work on his own. He was missing many key characteristics that it takes in order to work on a project from cradle to grave solo. I now have shared (7) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM
Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper
-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.
-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.
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Just Released! Episode #32: Work Adventures With One Un-Lucky Guy!!
Hello Everyone!
I burned the midnight oil to finish editing and release this latest podcast episode onto the over 20 podcast platforms and my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel. I covered one of the most frustrating apprentices I have dealt with in my career. I took the time to try to walk him through step-by-step directions. You give the guy an opportunity and he ends up on a path of destruction with his two left feet! Head over to your favorite podcast platform or to my YouTube channel for Episode #32: Work Adventures With One Un-Lucky Guy!! Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/2dFYgX4dUiHaMfJ4gigLY0?si=KcR-D8RyRnKGk1wuPOqa1Q&dl_branch=1
Episode #32: Work Adventures With One Un-Lucky Guy!! on The Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel:
https://youtu.be/qXetWjlHz2M
Well, let me know your thoughts on this recent podcast episode by dropping feedback or just show some support? I am curious as to your perception of the stories. I gave an honest account of how I felt as well as some of my co-workers. In this business, few people have patience for people not getting with the program. There is no such thing as light duty. We have deadlines and milestones and always have supervision up our ass. We only have so much time to teach a person what to do. If they don't figure it out, they face the wrath of both their peers and supervision. Now, I need to head to bed since I stayed up way too late working on podcast editing. Therefore, have a fabulous Thursday morning at work or home solo or with friends and/or family. Try to enjoy your week however you wish or need to do. Try to keep cool, dry, and safe while finishing up this work week people! Peace out, Cub Scout!
Last week, I released and shared a batch of three podcast episodes that I have up on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel and the podcast platform of your choice. I have released the following:
Episode #29: Part A-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Q1qZS9h_qMQ
Episode #30: Part B-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/zDCCKj1iUYk
Episode #31: Mrs. Canatuna Piggly Dogg Meat Complaint!! on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bicjZ3EHcOg
CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (7) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!
I just released yet another short story this week on working with one of the worst apprentices ever! I was not the only one in my shop who felt that same way about the guy nicknamed "Lucky". Check out some of the dumb stuff he would do on the job. I now have shared (7) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM
Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper
-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.
-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.
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Monday, August 16, 2021
How Do You Determine A Genuine Compliment??
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Hello Everyone!
Is your evening nice and chill tonight? How warm was it on your side of the globe today? Are you noticing the leaves changing already and dropping to the ground? I noticed it here in New York City already. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you that you will dodge any bad weather or earthquakes. My heart goes out to the nation of Haiti who are enduring tough times right now! Prayers for anyone facing a hurricane in the near future as well. Hopefully, your Monday evening is calm and uneventful. We have weather in the low to mid 80's Fahrenheit here in New York City this week. Let me know in the comment section if you are considered as mean with your delivery to others? If so, how have you worked to soften up your delivery? If you take no prisoners with your approach, let me know as well. I am pretty sure that my audience is not super sensitive in nature. I would envision my audience to be rough around the edges and laced with tons of sarcasm like myself. If I am incorrect with my assessment, let me know. Here is a question, from Quora, on a woman who received feedback that her compliment is not normally what is offered. I want to scream, on her behalf, that she gave a damn compliment!! Stop analyzing it and accept it!! Do you struggle with how others perceive you? Are you trying to evolve and not be so hard or sarcastic with your delivery? Is this a New Year's resolution? I feel sorry for anyone who has to walk on egg shells all of the time around sensitive people. As a construction worker and veteran, I learned long ago in my childhood to be tough. I didn't have much of a choice to be anything other than tough. I don't know how to be that sensitive woman that cries at a drop of a hat. I have to ask God for patience every time I hear someone cry easily at the drop of a hat. I am sure that many people have a different view on this question and I respect that. I am aware that my response is one of many. Here is the posed question and my response below.
POSED QUESTION:
"When you give someone a compliment and they say “that’s a lot coming from you”, do they mean I’m usually mean?" -Noella Basco
MY RESPONSE:
"I am not working with much information or history on this question. I will still take a stab at this even while missing context, history, and further details. The person who responded “that’s a lot coming from you” doesn’t have much confidence in the authenticity of your recent compliment. Was it intended as a joke from either side? There is a sliver of truth in every joke that has been told. The person responding monitors your previous responses and doesn’t believe that your compliment is authentic or what you typically offer. Why is that? Are you very reserved with offering kind input? Are you typically sarcastic in nature and the delivery is really hard for the other person to read? Are you guilty of cutting a person down versus giving kind feedback? Why are compliments difficult for you? Are you a hard person to please? Is it possible that the other person is not even capable of receiving compliments? Is the person so hard on themselves, they are incapable of receiving a compliment? We can’t always assume that this is totally your fault. Did you learn your delivery style from someone prominent in your childhood? Whether or not you intend to be mean, you are being perceived as mean. Unfortunately, if more than a handful of people have also said it, then it is more than likely to be a fact. Does it bother you what the person said? If it doesn’t, then continue on with your life. If it does bother you, then take inventory of what you have said in the past and try to implement small changes. Chances are high, since you wrote this out to ask for feedback, that you are bothered by the feedback on your delivery. You offered very little details to assess. It’s fair to say that you are thinking about what was said from both sides. If you want to evolve your image, you need to be more cautious with your words moving forward. Once words go out into the air, you cannot take them back. Due to my upbringing, military service, and years of working in construction, I tend to deliver feedback in a very hard or sarcastic manner. I find giving out compliments that were not earned as a challenge. I was raised to be tough, suck it up, and not cry ever since I was a little girl. I am probably the last person to learn from on how to become softer with the delivery. As I have gotten older, I do try to take into consideration a sensitive person when I am having a dialogue. Sometimes, I will evaluate whether or not my feedback is even needed. This is especially true if feedback has some potential to cause some form of drama. Sometimes, no matter how cautious you try to be, you cannot please everyone. Sarcasm can serve as a survival tactic in many environments. Even an absolute perfect delivery can somehow rub a super sensitive person the wrong way. Don’t try to get too wrapped up in what has already been said. I don’t believe that what was said was serious enough to loose sleep over it. It is also pointless to spend too much time and over analyze that past scenario. Just put your best foot forward and try your best to exercise caution with feedback in the future. Don’t try to kiss ass and throw in compliments that are not needed either. That can also come across as not authentic. I have had to tip toe around sensitive people and it is not easy at all. I have sympathy for you if you are trying to manage the tight rope of walking over and around sensitive people. I wish you luck on your choices moving forward. "
-Leslie M. Jasper
https://www.quora.com/When-you-give-someone-a-compliment-and-they-say-that-s-a-lot-coming-from-you-do-they-mean-I-m-usually-mean/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1
Well, let me know your thoughts about this topic by dropping feedback or just show some support? I am curious as to your perception on the question. I am trying to write this out before I step out for my evening stroll. Have you ever experienced a person telling you that your compliment is rare or not often offered? Are you the type to not easily accept compliments? Who do you think is in the right in this scenario? Do you like my advice? If your advice would differ, how much different would it be? I would be interested to hear a different viewpoint than mine. Now, I need to move on to other tasks before going to bed. Therefore, have a fabulous Monday evening at work or home solo or with friends and/or family. Try to enjoy your new week however you wish or need to do. Try to keep cool, dry, and safe on this new work week people! Peace out, Cub Scout!
I recently released and shared my latest three podcast episodes that I have up on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel and the podcast platform of your choice. I have released the following:
Episode #29: Part A-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Q1qZS9h_qMQ
Episode #30: Part B-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/zDCCKj1iUYk
Episode #31: Mrs. Canatuna Piggly Dogg Meat Complaint!! on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bicjZ3EHcOg
CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (6) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!
I just released another short story this week on working while pregnant back in 2004 with my youngest son. I now have shared (6) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM
Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper
-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.
-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.
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What To Do When You Find Out A Man Is Interested?
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Hello Everyone!
Is your week starting out alright? How warm was it on your side of the globe today? Are you enjoying your Monday? We have weather in the low to mid 80's Fahrenheit here in New York City this week. As I mentioned on Sunday, I spent the weekend socializing with some friends at an Irish festival, called Gavenstock, up in the Catskills in New York. It is about two and a half hours north of New York City. We had a blast and enjoyed our stay at Murphy's Law up in Leeds, New York. I am sure we will go again next year. Let me know in the comment section if you have ever asked a friend to do your dirty work and talk to a girl for you? If so, how did that work out? Here is a question, from Quora, on a woman being confused about whether or not this man likes her. She doesn't share if she likes him or not. This is another question that is good to ask and good to ponder in your own personal life. Some people fear rejection. I mean, many people fear rejection. I know that women approach men now these days. That is something that I do not try to do. I feel like it is not natural to reach out to men. I'm not saying that I am old fashioned. I am just not comfortable reaching out to a man first. Perhaps I am missing opportunities by not doing that. Now, it is understandable to have a fantasy in your head about someone. That crash into reality can happen if the real person does not live up to the fantasy. Oftentimes, a person does not measure up. I feel sorry for anyone who has experienced that form of disappointment. I am sure that many people have a different opinion on this question. My response is one of many. Here is the posed question and my response below.
POSED QUESTION:
"His friend told me he always talks about me and won't shut up about me, but he acts like he doesn't like me that way sometimes, I'm so confused, what does it mean?" -Anonymus Girlyyy
MY RESPONSE:
"He may have developed an obsession with the concept of you. It sounds like he may be confused with how he feels. He may believe that he likes you yet not 100% sure. It is very different between fantasy versus reality. It could also be that his friend is saying that his friend likes you in an effort to check your temperature gauge on what you think about the guy. It is easier to dodge potential rejection by throwing you off the path by saying he doesn’t like you. He may be having a battle with his two heads if you know what I mean. His rational side is trying to bow out. However, he is indeed at least sexually attracted to you. The friend is out doing the dirty work of reaching out to you on his behalf. A sexual attraction is no guarantee that a relationship will work. There is no need for confusion. You must choose a door and proceed. You either give the man a shot, if you are interested, or dodge the bullet and kindly bow out of the news. You take the relationship very, very slow to explore actual compatibility. If your gut instincts tell you that he is the creepy type of obsessed, then try your best to graciously tell the friend that you are flattered yet not interested. If you think you may have a shot at a good relationship, then go ahead and explore it. If you are unsure, then skip the offer. Do what is safe for you. Know that you are in the driver’s seat no matter the situation. You make a move and share your interest or you do not go forward. If it is not worth it or it may invite harm, then you walk away. I wish you luck with the decision that you make."
-Leslie M. Jasper
https://www.quora.com/His-friend-told-me-he-always-talks-about-me-and-wont-shut-up-about-me-but-he-acts-like-he-doesnt-like-me-that-way-sometimes-Im-so-confused-what-does-it-mean/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1
Well, let me know your thoughts about this topic by dropping feedback or just show some support? I am curious as to the interpretation of others on the question. I am trying to write this out while finding an opportunity to write. Have you ever experienced an obsession over someone? I know I have and never had the courage to reach out to actually make the connection. I hope that you have had better luck than I have in relationships. I need to move on to other tasks. Therefore, have a fabulous Monday afternoon at work or home solo or with friends and/or family. Try to enjoy your new week however you wish or need to do. Try to keep cool and safe on this new work week people! Peace out, Cub Scout!
I recently released and shared my latest three podcast episodes that I have up on my Verbally Disastrous YouTube channel and the podcast platform of your choice. I have released the following:
Episode #29: Part A-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/Q1qZS9h_qMQ
Episode #30: Part B-Sunday Funday With Friends And Family on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/zDCCKj1iUYk
Episode #31: Mrs. Canatuna Piggly Dogg Meat Complaint!! on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bicjZ3EHcOg
CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (6) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!
I just released another short story this week on working while pregnant back in 2004 with my youngest son. I now have shared (6) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM
Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper
-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.
-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.
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