Advice: The Meaning Of Gratitude & "Not A Big Fan"

Photo Credit: https://www.innerclarityllc.com/the-magical-power-of-gratitude/ Hello Everyone! We made it to another find Friday folks!! Let's use this opportunity to enjoy another summer weekend. Make your free time count and enjoy it as much as possible since life is short! The summer flies by since it is only a few months in duration. At least that is how it is here in New York City. How is life on your side of the globe today?? I wish you nothing but success and happiness! As your friend in your head, I'm always sifting the internet to look for more content to share. As I have stated before, I'm always open to topic suggestions and your feedback. Before I share the advice, I'm sharing with you my first children's book "Not All Girls Play With Dolls" that is available in e-book, paperback, and hardcover on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and iTunes. The same reminder goes for my first adult book entitled, "Construction Tales: Volume I: A Woman's Journey To Become An Electrician". I'm now sharing even more custom Quora advice for your reading pleasure. This first piece of advice is on the meaning behind doing things for a person that are considered to either be special, normal, or holds no value. People who lack gratitude really get under my skin!!! It irritates me to see entitled people walk the Earth. What's even worse is to see the entitled people totally abuse another person and their kindness!! No one owes you a damn thing!! If you don't like how a person does something, do it your damn self!! I dealt with a lazy soul for many years who would critique from the couch!! I refuse to deal with a personality like that ever again and you should too! Thankfully, the second question is mild in nature. For the second round of advice, the topic is on the meaning behind the phrase, "not a big fan". Go ahead and get right into the reading material by reciting both the question and my advice down below. Drop your thoughts, on my wide range of chosen topics, by leaving your position taken in the comment section down below. Check out the question(s) and my response(s) down below: POSED QUESTION #1: "What does it mean when people do something to someone and that someone sees it as special and when you do it its very normal or has no value even?" -By Willi G.m MY RESPONSE #1: "This boils down to a person having gratitude versus no gratitude. You should be grateful for each and every gift another person offers you. I’ve always been under the impression that no one owes me $hit!! The only person who owes me anything is myself. If anyone does anything for me, I must extend nothing less than gratitude each and every time. Because a person is going out of their way to do something for me, I always consider it special. It’s special no matter how small the gesture is. Once you start taking a person for granted and expecting them to do things for you, you will no longer see the same value in the other person’s contributions. Once the person contributing sees that they are not valued, they will either immediately or eventually step back with their efforts. Relationships fail oftentimes because one or both parties take the person for granted. The same energy offered in the beginning of a relationship is not always carried through for the duration of the relationship. It’s a damn shame if a stranger on the street gets more respect than a person closest in your social circle. Not keeping that same energy is a key reason for relationship failure. It’s always best to show gratitude for each and every chore another person takes on for your behalf. This gratitude keeps the flame burning on the torch. It’s not even good to criticize a person’s deeds either. If you don’t like how someone does something for you, then just do it yourself. After all, if you didn’t have to spend your time and/or money on the task, you should be honored that another person did it for you. I had a past relationship where I was often criticized for my good deeds. This same person rarely ever did anything for me. The solution was to tell him to no longer ask me and just do it himself. You live and learn along your life path. You end up teaching people what’s acceptable behavior anytime you accept anything less than gratitude for your kindness. May you have much luck and success on your life path. #ConstructionTales #VerballyDisastrous #NotAllGirlsPlayWithDolls" -By Leslie M. Jasper https://www.quora.com/What-does-it-mean-when-people-do-something-to-someone-and-that-someone-sees-it-as-special-and-when-you-do-it-its-very-normal-or-has-no-value-even/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1 POSED QUESTION #2: "What is the meaning of the expression "not a big fan"?" -By Marcelo Philippe MY RESPONSE #2: "It can be somewhat of a softer way to let someone know that you don’t like something. A fan is short for fanatic. A fanatic is a person who is filled with excessive and single-minded zeal, especially for an extreme religious or political cause. It can also just mean that you do not have an over exaggerated feeling for a particular item. You may like a concept or even feel rather neutral about it. However, you are not “over the moon” in love with the concept. Telling a person that you are “not a big fan” could also be sarcastic in nature as well. You could be totally misleading the person on purpose as to your feelings about the item. It’s a way to not reveal exactly how you feel since you are not sure of the other person’s position. May you have much success and luck on your life path. #ConstructionTales #VerballyDisastrous #NotAllGirlsPlayWithDolls" -By Leslie M. Jasper https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-meaning-of-the-expression-not-a-big-fan/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1 I appreciate your efforts with stopping by my double dose of Quora advice posts today. Share your opinion on my advice posts. Drop that unique opinion down in the comment section down below. I'm also sharing my latest (8) podcast episodes that are listed down below from The Verbally Disastrous Podcast, via links for Spotify & YouTube down below. If you are into reading on a Kindle, check out my newest short story release that belongs to my Construction Tales-Told By A Woman Kindle Vella Library short story series on Amazon down below. My latest short story #11 is entitled, "Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools". This short story covers my life as a widowed, single mother in the era when I juggled both motherhood and my career as a journeywoman electrician. The previous short story is #10 is entitled, "Early Life Lessons & Characters To Meet As An Apprentice". If anyone has read any of my other previous short stories, let me know your thoughts? Check out the links for my book #ConstructionTales down below. Go back to your Friday grind and start planning out your amazing weekend activities now that it is here. Have yourself a great morning/afternoon/evening on your side of the globe and a restful or productive day! Link To Construction Tales: Volume I: A Woman's Journey To Become An Electrician (Paperback & Kindle) On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Construction-Tales-Womans-Journey-Electrician/dp/1467960160 Link To Construction Tales: A Young Person's Guide To Accomplish Anything In Life (Paperback & Kindle) On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Construction-Tales-Persons-Accomplish-Anything/dp/1497593115 U.S.A.: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B07P5PNCS7/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_us United Kingdom: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B07P5PP7RW/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H6-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_uk France, Belgium, Switzerland: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.fr/pd/B07P7RYP4G/?source_code=FRAORWS022318903B-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_fr Germany, Austria, Switzerland: Use This Link For The Audio Version Of My Book #ConstructionTales On Audible: https://www.audible.de/pd/B07P8W3MVY/?source_code=EKAORWS0223189009-BK-ACX0-144253&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_144253_rh_de VERBALLY DISASTROUS PODCAST EPISODE LINKS: Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2dFYgX4dUiHaMfJ4gigLY0?si=KcR-D8RyRnKGk1wuPOqa1Q&dl_branch=1 Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #43: Part A- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6XzVL9ybKHA Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #44: Part B- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/TFDLB5talUo Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #45: Part C- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nYRVJNya0lU Verbally Disastrous! Season #2, Episode #46:Early Life Lessons & Characters To Meet As An Apprentice On YouTube: https://youtu.be/IcQ4-uGankA Verbally Disastrous Podcast! S#2, Ep. #47: Part A- Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qWhf4lGmcXo Verbally Disastrous Podcast! S#2, Ep. #48: Part B- Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools on YouTube: https://youtu.be/wO8nXSRw7sU Verbally Disastrous Podcast- S#2, Episode #49: Just Released Not All Girls Play With Dolls!! on YouTube: https://youtu.be/go1FdOI5eYY Verbally Disastrous Podcast- S#2, Episode #50: My First 7 Weeks As A Site Safety Manager on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_DKA-q72dNw I recently shared my latest short story that has been loaded up to my Construction Tales-Told By A Woman Kindle Vella Library on Amazon. This is short story #11 entitled, "Juggling Motherhood & Working With The Tools". This short story covers my life as a widowed, single mother in the era when I juggled both motherhood and my career as a journeywoman electrician. I share the various challenges I faced and lessons learned along the way. The previous short story is entitled: #10: "Early Life Lessons & Characters To Meet As An Apprentice". I decided to write about some life lessons such as guarding your personal information, managing nasty rumors, combating sexual harassment, gender discrimination, and racism. Overall, the construction culture has improved dramatically over the past 25-years. Developing both a thick skin and a sharp tongue are key tools needed to survive various jobsite antics. I hope you learn something from this short story. There are more to come. These short stories are now also available as Verbally Disastrous podcast episodes. Construction Tales- Told By A Woman: (11) Kindle Vella Short Stories On Amazon!! https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/product/B096N8NSGM The Verbally Disastrous Store On Tee-Spring:

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