A Man Wants A Woman To "Be Crazy" About Him-Offering Advice

Hello Everyone! I found another interesting question on Quora to where I offered some advice since it was specfically requested for me give my thoughts. As a mother of two young men, I want to see them find the best partner that they can possibly find. They are both smart, young men who have good hearts and are very capable of being excellent fathers some day. I want them to find their passions, be happy, and live out life to the fullest. I don't like the thought of either of them going out of their way to lure in a young woman. That relationship will always be lop sided with them having to keep the girl interested. The other end of the spectrum is not good either. A relationship should just flow naturally, peacefully, and progress to higher levels easily. No side should have to convince the other to love them or stick around. With my young men in mind, I try to offer the best guidance as possible. Here is the question and my response below. Let me know your thoughts? Would you offer the same advice? If different, how so? If you drag your feet and don't make your intentions clear, you are in danger of entering and never, ever leaving the...

POSED QUESTION: "How do I make her be crazy about me?" -Paul Mwas MY RESPONSE: "You make a woman “crazy” for you by being the best version of yourself. This is advice I would offer to my two sons. Once your paths cross, you will recognize that spark of chemistry between you two. There will be a strong, mutual desire to want to spend as much time together as possible. You need to strike a balance to where you give as much as your receive in a relationship. Be realistic with your expectations. Just remember that not every woman that you are attracted to will also be attracted to you. Always remind yourself of your own worth. Do not continue pursuing a relationship, no matter how attractive she is, if you are doing all of the work in a relationship. Don’t allow a young lady to blind you with her beauty while you accept her cold heart and/or bad behavior. If she displays a pattern of selfish behavior, push the eject button ASAP. Those patterns of behavior can lead to a miserable life in the future. One good way to get closer to a young woman is through showing her your future vision as a family man with words and actions. At some point, a woman will want to start a family. Proper planning for this phase in life is vital. Children are very expensive to raise. Hopefully, she has already earned her education and has saved up some money for the down time that’s required when you give birth. Therefore, doing your part and being able to support the family is crucial. Being thoughtful and taking care of things without being asked is a great quality to possess. Hopefully, there will be an even exchange of acts of kindness that are both given and returned. If you find that special someone, don’t let them go. Once you get past the love birds phase, relationships take work so be willing to endure the highs and lows together. If there are too many red flags that you can’t ignore, don’t be afraid to cut your losses. Too many young men are blinded by the beauty of a young woman. They allow poor behavior to drag on for far too long. Unless the person wants to change, those red flags don’t just go away. On the other hand, if you see that this young lady checks all of the boxes, don’t drag your feel. Make sure you make her your wife or girlfriend as soon as possible. Life passes quickly so don’t pass up a good chance to create your family with an amazing partner. I wish you luck on your journey to finding that young lady you don’t mind to go the distance for in life". I thank you for stopping by on my side of the world. You have many options and I am honored that you have dedicated your time to peep my content. As stated a million times previously, I appreciate your feedback, comments, and suggestions to improve my content. I wish you a peaceful evening or morning on your side of the world. You are appreciated and I hope you get a laugh or two our of my tall tales and detailed observations. 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