My Response To A Question On Dishonest Women On Quora!

Hello Everyone! I responded to a question that was posed on Quora today. A part of me felt sad for the person, may it be a man or woman (the post is not clear), that they have been betrayed by multiple women. I have empathy if the person posting is a genuinely good person just crossing paths consistently with dishonest women. On the other hand, if you choose to keep fishing in the same pond and get the exact same fish, you can't continue fishing in the same spot and expect to get different results. If the person is serious, they must re-assess the approach and switch it up. I acknowledge that I am offering advice with very limited information. My disclaimer is that I am not a professional therapist or relationship coach. My response is based upon my years of relationship experience along with some logic. I felt like this question and my response had value so I am sharing it. I don't want to always feel like I am promoting my podcast. It is important to mix it up and evoke some critical thinking on the subject matter. Here is the question: "Why is it so hard to find a real and honest woman now?" Now, here is my response that I submitted on Quora today down below: What an interesting question and how it was crafted. What a shame that the back story is missing. I genuinely feel sorry for you that you have been consistently surrounded by fake, lying women. If you are surrounded by many women with the exact same qualities, you must re-assess. Ask yourself the following: why do I keep going to the same well yet expecting a different quality of water? How am I attracting the same type of person repeatedly? Where am I looking for them? Are you choosing women that you are trying to fix? How can I change my approach to find a different type of woman? Firstly, you must change your social circle. Good women are oftentimes home bodies or busy working a lot. Try a dating app. Can you handle a motivated woman? If they are not at work, they are busy working on personal goals. It will be hard to find them in a bar or night club. You may catch a good woman at the gym, in the grocery store, craft store, Home Depot, the mall, church, the park, paint & sip, etc. What qualities are you looking for in a woman? Men who solely seek a woman for her external shell will short change themselves in the long run. A good woman is sure footed, responsible, motivated, has a cheerful disposition, actively pursuing goals (has a list she crosses out and adds regularly), and has a sense of satisfaction with her life. Dishonest people are always lazy, lack motivation, have no sense of direction, and want to ride life on the backs of others. I would think you can gauge a person based upon asking about their goals and how are they actively trying to pursue them when you first meet. People who must deceive and lie are lazy, lack focus, always looking for shortcuts, and find a “sucker” to do tasks for them. An honest person is happy taking life by the horns and finding their own way. Good women are smashing goals under their own terms. They are not using their neighbors to compare progress then lie about their achievements to impress others since they either fall short or didn't even try. A good woman may or may not be obsessed by her looks- it may not be her highest priority. You may have to adjust your standards or be more flexible. Once you switch up your approach, you can spot a liar a mile away!! I wish you luck!! I plan to add this topic to my website Leslie's Verbally Disastrous Podcast & #ConstructionTales Blog If you have a different train of thought to toss my way, please share. I am a fan of receiving another angle or something that I may not have previously considered. If you have experience in this arena either as a man or woman, please share. Any suggestions on other topics will be welcomed. In honor of hump day, we smashed half the week so far!! Now we must work on the other half of the week! Thanks for stopping by to check out my jumbled sequence of letters that convey my thoughts. Have a peaceful evening or morning wherever you are in the world! Peace out, cub scout! Cheers! Leslie M. Jasper -Author & Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Deezer, Google Podcasts, Pocket Casts, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, and YouTube. Other platforms include: Acast, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Player FM, Pod Bean, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Podchaser, Stitcher, Tune In. -The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast & Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Apple Podcasts, Anchor, Breaker, Deezer, Google Podcasts, Pocket Casts, Radio Public, and Spotify. 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